What is Love? Agape
Biblical love (agape) is an action
word not an emotional word. It is about demonstration and not feelings. Agape
is self-sacrificial, it is the action of placing others above self. It is the
demonstration of Jesus’ life and His sacrifice on the cross.
2 John 6
This is love, that we walk according to His commandments.
This is the commandment, that as you have heard from the beginning, you should
walk in it.
1 John 5:2-3
By this we know that we love the children of God,
when we love God and keep His commandments. For this
is the love of God, that we keep His commandments. And His commandments are not
burdensome.
1 John 2:3-6
Now by this we know that we know Him, if we keep
His commandments. He who says, “I know Him,” and does not keep His
commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him. But
whoever keeps His word, truly the love of God is perfected in him. By this we
know that we are in Him. He who says
he abides in Him ought himself also to walk just as He walked.
John 14:21
He who has My commandments and keeps them, it is he who loves
Me. And he who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and
manifest Myself to him.”
John 15:12-13
This is My commandment, that you love one another
as I have loved you. Greater love
has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.
Even when we don’t
have the same emotions that we have for loved ones towards our enemies, we can
demonstrate Biblical love(agape) towards them with our actions regardless of
the feelings being absent.
Matthew 22:36-40
“Teacher,
which is the great
commandment in the law?”
Jesus said to him, “‘You
shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all
your mind.’ This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it:
‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments
hang all the Law and the Prophets.”
The very essence of the Law and the Prophets is to Love God and
Love your neighbor. Understanding that the entire Law of God is to Love (agape)
and by obeying the commands of God, we are essentially demonstrating our love
to God and others.
Romans 13:8-10
Owe no one anything except to love one another,
for he who loves another has fulfilled the law. For the
commandments, “You shall not commit adultery,” “You shall not murder,” “You
shall not steal,” “You shall not bear false witness,” “You
shall not covet,” and if there is any other
commandment, are all summed up
in this saying, namely, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” Love does
no harm to a neighbor; therefore love is the
fulfillment of the law.
Again, the very essence of the
Law, the point and objective of the law is to Love (agape). Because agape love
does not commit adultery, agape love does not steal or murder. Agape love does
not covet other people’s possession. So Paul, inspired by the commands of God
through the Holy Spirit urges us to owe no one anything except obey the commands
of God by doing so we are demonstrating our agape love to God and one another.